Earl Grey Lavender Cupcakes
These cupcakes taste like a proper afternoon tea. Earl Grey, with its bergamot perfume, is steeped right into the milk, and a touch of lavender adds a gentle floral note. Topped with a mellow honey buttercream, they feel elegant without being complicated.
The key is restraint with the lavender — a little is lovely, too much tastes like soap. Grinding the tea leaves fine means the flavour goes all the way through.
For another fragrant bake, try my cardamom pistachio sheet cake, or keep it classic with vanilla layer cake.
Why this recipe works
Steeping Earl Grey in warm milk draws out the bergamot flavour, while a spoonful of finely ground tea leaves in the batter deepens it. A small amount of culinary lavender adds a floral top note. Honey in the buttercream keeps it soft and complements the tea without overwhelming it.
What you'll need
A few special touches, mostly standard cupcake ingredients:
- Earl Grey: use good-quality tea; you will steep some and grind some.
- Culinary lavender: a small pinch only, and make sure it is food-grade.
- Honey: for the buttercream, adding softness and a floral note.


Smart swaps: no lavender? Leave it out — the Earl Grey shines on its own. Use any black tea if you do not have Earl Grey, though you will miss the bergamot. Maple syrup can replace honey in the frosting.
Earl Grey Lavender Cupcakes
Earl Grey and lavender cupcakes with honey buttercream. Makes 12.
Ingredients
- ½ cup (120 ml) milk
- 3 Earl Grey tea bags (or 3 tsp loose)
- ½ cup (113 g) unsalted butter, softened
- ¾ cup (150 g) granulated sugar
- 2 large eggs
- 1 tsp vanilla extract
- 1½ cups (180 g) all-purpose flour
- 1½ tsp baking powder
- ¼ tsp culinary lavender, ground
- For buttercream: ¾ cup (170 g) butter + 2½ cups (300 g) powdered sugar + 2 tbsp honey
Method
- Warm the milk and steep 2 tea bags in it for 10 minutes, then cool. Grind the contents of 1 tea bag finely.
- Heat oven to 175°C / 350°F and line a 12-hole tin.
- Cream the softened butter and sugar until fluffy. Beat in the eggs and vanilla.
- Whisk the flour, baking powder, ground tea and lavender, then add alternately with the steeped milk.
- Divide between the cases and bake 18–22 minutes, until springy.
- Cool completely. Beat the butter, powdered sugar and honey until fluffy, then pipe onto the cupcakes.
Step by step
Step 1 — Steep and grind the tea
Steep tea in warm milk for the bergamot flavour, and grind a little into the flour so the tea runs through the whole crumb.

Step 2 — Mix gently
Cream the butter and sugar, then add the dry ingredients alternately with the tea milk. A light hand keeps the cupcakes tender.
Step 3 — Frost with honey buttercream
Cool completely, then pipe on a soft honey buttercream. A dried flower or a little lemon zest makes a pretty finish.

Pro tips
- Go easy on lavender. A quarter teaspoon is plenty; more tastes soapy.
- Grind some tea leaves. This carries the flavour through the crumb, not just the milk.
- Use food-grade lavender. Culinary lavender only, never craft or scented.
- Cool fully before piping. Warm cupcakes melt buttercream.
- Steep, do not boil. Gentle steeping avoids bitterness.
Storage & make-ahead
Store frosted cupcakes in an airtight container at room temperature for up to 2 days, or refrigerate for up to 4 (bring to room temperature to serve). Unfrosted cupcakes freeze well for up to 3 months; thaw and frost fresh. The tea milk can be made a day ahead.
Variations & substitutions
- London Fog: add a little vanilla bean to the buttercream.
- Lemon: add lemon zest to the batter to lift the bergamot.
- No lavender: leave it out for pure Earl Grey.
- Mini: bake as minis for 10–12 minutes.
Frequently asked questions
Is lavender safe to bake with?
Yes, as long as it is culinary (food-grade) lavender. Use it sparingly for a floral note, not a soapy one.
Can I use any tea?
Earl Grey gives the signature bergamot flavour, but any strong black tea works if that is what you have.
Why are mine bland?
The tea flavour is subtle. Steeping in milk and grinding some leaves into the flour both boost it.
Can I make them ahead?
Yes — freeze unfrosted cupcakes and frost on the day, or make the tea milk a day ahead.
Final thoughts: these are my go-to for a special afternoon tea — elegant, fragrant, and a little different. Bake a batch and tell me if the lavender wins you over on the contact page.
For tips on baking with tea and botanicals, King Arthur Baking is a helpful resource.


